At times I feel that guys can be quite immature when it comes to dealing with relationships. Take for example, Mandy's "so-called" ex-boyfriend...he regretted starting a relationship with his girlfriend but decide to do absolutely nothing about. Sigh! I am just glad that Mandy got rid of him fast.
Anyway, I had an annoying call from this guy last night which ended me not being able to sleep well the whole night. Well, as I do not want to confuse you guys, I better start from the very beginning...
Before I came to Penang to further my studies, I used to hang out with my bro's friends, of course, with my bro's present. My parents are very protective towards me (what can I say, I am the only daughter) and do not allowed me to involve myself in any serious relationship with guys so leaving me with no choice but to stick to my brother wherever he goes. Well, to be honest, I just want to make more friends and have fun. I was not looking for serious relationship. Anyway, that's when I got to know "A".
"A" was my brother's best friend then. He used to hang around with my brother...So soon enough, we also got used to seeing him around the house. I did not realised when it started, sigh...but he began to call for looking for me instead of my brother and whenever he was in our house, he will followed me around. At first, I did not suspect anything fishy about it but it soon became quite annoying to me.
One night, right in the middle of the night, he called me up and told me he was in love with me. I believe I had made myself clear when I told him I have absolutely no feelings for him. But seems like, he just can't or should I say, could not accept what I said. As I do not want to ruin my brother's friendship with him, I just kept this away from my brother and ignored "A".
Luck was on my side when I have to leave for Penang to further my studies. I thought "A" will soon forget about me and find a new girl for himself. But I was WRONG! He was still in his own "imaginary world".
He called me last night again after a few months of peacefulness and accused me of lying to him...that I, Candy, too love him but because of my brother and my parents, I am "FORCED" to turn him down. Ha! Which planet is he from???? Planet Pluto?!!! After 2 hours of explaining to him, he still can't seems to pull himself together and accept the truth. That's when my patient gets the better of me and cut the line off!....I really do not meant to be rude but is it so hard to accept being rejected by a girl? Does he have to act like its the end of the world? I don't think so!
Well, I do not know if I will be seeing "A" again (to avoid giving him false hope)...but I sincerely hope that "A" will be able to find his true happiness soon.God bless ya!
Friday, March 6, 2009
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Klick on the Bun - 2
Bun, is indescribably.... urrggghh.... I'll put it in a decent way, her looks is below average, skin is dark, a little 'plump', she loves to wear sleeveless showing off her arms, 90% of her photos shows her side face / hiding her real face... urgh.... fat and ugly. By now, you'd think I'm just jealous over an ex's new girlfriend, right? Hey, not judging on her looks but when you have known her before you met her, this is how it's gonna be. I wish I have the courage to post her photo here, exposing her identity and you'll know what I mean.
Scene 1
Bun showers Klick with expensive gifts... and when they quarrel, she will (10/10 times) request a break-up. Then, cries, begs, threatens to burn down his house, damage his properties -_-# kills herself -_-# hurt his parents, dan lain-lain lagi... to get back together with Klick.
At one time Klick decided to put a stop to all this nonsense and returned all gifts to her and said "Sorry, not this time. I've had enough." She took sleeping pills (god knows if it's true) drove recklessly to his house and crashed his house gate -_- Neighbours came out, she was crying, sitting on the road in front of his house, announcing to his neighbours on how romantically they had sex on their second date and now it's gonna end like this!! And *blurrkk* she vomitted.
According to Klick, she pretended to recall of her ex boyfriend on their 2nd date, she was drunk, he drove her home, she pulled him into her bedroom, undressed herself and then, *tada* undressed HIM as well! Isn't this what every guy's been dreaming of? But becareful guys, there's no free lunch and your life will be compromised!
Scene 1
Bun showers Klick with expensive gifts... and when they quarrel, she will (10/10 times) request a break-up. Then, cries, begs, threatens to burn down his house, damage his properties -_-# kills herself -_-# hurt his parents, dan lain-lain lagi... to get back together with Klick.
At one time Klick decided to put a stop to all this nonsense and returned all gifts to her and said "Sorry, not this time. I've had enough." She took sleeping pills (god knows if it's true) drove recklessly to his house and crashed his house gate -_- Neighbours came out, she was crying, sitting on the road in front of his house, announcing to his neighbours on how romantically they had sex on their second date and now it's gonna end like this!! And *blurrkk* she vomitted.
According to Klick, she pretended to recall of her ex boyfriend on their 2nd date, she was drunk, he drove her home, she pulled him into her bedroom, undressed herself and then, *tada* undressed HIM as well! Isn't this what every guy's been dreaming of? But becareful guys, there's no free lunch and your life will be compromised!
He almost broke my ear drum when he explained it to me -_-! "Jesus, give her slap!! I'll find you another girlfriend, Klick, LEAVE HER!!" I know he really tried but when you're born without balls, breaking up with a psycho girlfriend is just impossible. I tried to comfort him, tell him how girls feel about what guys do or say because I believe there must be a reason behind all these dramas. How could a normal girl do all this, and fyi, she's 25. I taught him, 'how to touch a girl' (touch her heart lah!) but obviously he only extracted the "how to touch her breast" part. Bad student.
Ok, continue... Bun was telling stories in the middle of the road and Klick's neighbours were looking at one another, feeling disgusted and sorry for Klick. I can imagine how he felt. Can you? He didn't make it on time to shut her mouth, she continued on the undressing each other's part and how his buttonfly pants got tangled with her hair. He had no choice but to invite her into his house, LOL!
And eventually, they got back together because Klick couldn't stand her tears while she forcefully stayed in his house for a week, haha!
Ok, continue... Bun was telling stories in the middle of the road and Klick's neighbours were looking at one another, feeling disgusted and sorry for Klick. I can imagine how he felt. Can you? He didn't make it on time to shut her mouth, she continued on the undressing each other's part and how his buttonfly pants got tangled with her hair. He had no choice but to invite her into his house, LOL!
And eventually, they got back together because Klick couldn't stand her tears while she forcefully stayed in his house for a week, haha!
I know Candy's gonna love this scene... so I'm dedicating this real-life story that sounds like a tv series, to her as her belated birthday present :D "Sang yat fai lok!"
Klick on the Bun
Candy & i have agreed to maintain this little blog of ours by updating funny and interesting parts of our life, sharing it with people who happens to drop by and read, maybe comment a little. Ok, let's start.
Talking about love sick friends earlier in Can's blog, I have an an old friend, let's call him 'Klick'. Klick was my former unofficial boyfriend. Why do I label him as unofficial? Because I hid him from my parents, that's why >: )
Though 'former' but we became close friends even after he went studying abroad, then came back, started his career etc. Klick is an indecisive and a boring guy which is the main reason all his girlfriends, including me, left him. We shared our relationship problems; he taught me how to attract a guy, I taught him how to touch a girl, haha, we smoke, drink together and talk nonsense just to laugh away the hours.
About a year ago, he met his present girlfriend, erm.. call her... Bun, since she looks like one. Bun is a richman's daughter. You know a richman's daughter comes with an incredible attitude. Klick got onto her and regretted after 1 mth. He didn't know how to get out of the relationship as Bun often threatens to kill herself, even when Klick was in shower and missed her calls. She would thought her guy was on bed with another girl, she would drive all the way to his house to see if any girl was in his house. She would do alot of things to embarrass herself so that Klick would give in to the fight. I promise to blog ALL her humiliating scenes but it will take forever to finish because their relationship is on-going.. and I happen to be the listener. Urggh.
Klick and I used see each other quite often before he met Bun. Since then, Klick was imprisoned. I have not seen Klick for a year. He would call me, text me, chat with me on msn while he's working. I know he misses me as an old friend. I took pity on him when he told me how suffering he was being dragged around like a toy, always being the sorry one who had to appologize after a fight, sorry, not 'a' fight but ALL fights.
I've never seen Bun cause Klick never shows me her photo. She must be beautiful because with her attitude, any guy would have left her. Well, I saw her in facebook last week after Klick added me. She's just unbelievably... Okay, why don't I continue tomorrow or this is gonna be the longest blog on the internet... I've had enough Buns today.. *puke*
Talking about love sick friends earlier in Can's blog, I have an an old friend, let's call him 'Klick'. Klick was my former unofficial boyfriend. Why do I label him as unofficial? Because I hid him from my parents, that's why >: )
Though 'former' but we became close friends even after he went studying abroad, then came back, started his career etc. Klick is an indecisive and a boring guy which is the main reason all his girlfriends, including me, left him. We shared our relationship problems; he taught me how to attract a guy, I taught him how to touch a girl, haha, we smoke, drink together and talk nonsense just to laugh away the hours.
About a year ago, he met his present girlfriend, erm.. call her... Bun, since she looks like one. Bun is a richman's daughter. You know a richman's daughter comes with an incredible attitude. Klick got onto her and regretted after 1 mth. He didn't know how to get out of the relationship as Bun often threatens to kill herself, even when Klick was in shower and missed her calls. She would thought her guy was on bed with another girl, she would drive all the way to his house to see if any girl was in his house. She would do alot of things to embarrass herself so that Klick would give in to the fight. I promise to blog ALL her humiliating scenes but it will take forever to finish because their relationship is on-going.. and I happen to be the listener. Urggh.
Klick and I used see each other quite often before he met Bun. Since then, Klick was imprisoned. I have not seen Klick for a year. He would call me, text me, chat with me on msn while he's working. I know he misses me as an old friend. I took pity on him when he told me how suffering he was being dragged around like a toy, always being the sorry one who had to appologize after a fight, sorry, not 'a' fight but ALL fights.
I've never seen Bun cause Klick never shows me her photo. She must be beautiful because with her attitude, any guy would have left her. Well, I saw her in facebook last week after Klick added me. She's just unbelievably... Okay, why don't I continue tomorrow or this is gonna be the longest blog on the internet... I've had enough Buns today.. *puke*
Candy Taking A Break?
BREAK TIME! Phew....! At last class was dismissed. Have been waiting it to end since class begins at 9.00am. Hmmm...wonder where Mandy is? Could not find her anywhere in campus, so end up coming to the library to pen a few words.
Anther girlfriend, Sue, is with me now...I don't know what's the reason she followed me here but I guess she just need someone to listen to her never-ending love story....Yes, she had a fight with her boyfriend AGAIN last night. I can't recalled how many times they fight with each other a month but for this round, seems like her "guy" is still keeping in touch with his "ex"...and its just freaking her out to know that.
Sigh! She wants me to give her some advice...what advice does she expect from me? Helloo...I am not Thelma...Every week you quarrel with your boyfriend and you run to me and Mandy to console you? How old are you? Grow up!
I wish that I can just tell her off and ask her to SHUT UP and get a life. But I definitely do not want to hurt her feelings. Don't get me wrong but I do love her as a friend but just that her relationship with her boyfriend is driving me and other girlfriends crazy. How many times have we advice her to either talk things out with her boyfriend and clear all misunderstandings OR break off the relationship once and for all...BUT she just will never listen..and everytime, the war breaks out, one of the girls will need to spend the whole day with her listening to her miserable stories. Too bad, this time it was me...Mandy is lucky she is not around. Wait til I tell her the latest updates on Sue. She will be laughing her head off!
Sometimes I really do not understand, some simple sms-es from an "ex"...such as asking you "How's life?", "How's things lately?"...is it such a big deal? Why would some girls make it look like its the end of the world..??? I wonder...
Ohhh....my god! Sue is talking about calling her boyfriend's "ex" to confront her....I better stop her before she do anything stupid....!
Anther girlfriend, Sue, is with me now...I don't know what's the reason she followed me here but I guess she just need someone to listen to her never-ending love story....Yes, she had a fight with her boyfriend AGAIN last night. I can't recalled how many times they fight with each other a month but for this round, seems like her "guy" is still keeping in touch with his "ex"...and its just freaking her out to know that.
Sigh! She wants me to give her some advice...what advice does she expect from me? Helloo...I am not Thelma...Every week you quarrel with your boyfriend and you run to me and Mandy to console you? How old are you? Grow up!
I wish that I can just tell her off and ask her to SHUT UP and get a life. But I definitely do not want to hurt her feelings. Don't get me wrong but I do love her as a friend but just that her relationship with her boyfriend is driving me and other girlfriends crazy. How many times have we advice her to either talk things out with her boyfriend and clear all misunderstandings OR break off the relationship once and for all...BUT she just will never listen..and everytime, the war breaks out, one of the girls will need to spend the whole day with her listening to her miserable stories. Too bad, this time it was me...Mandy is lucky she is not around. Wait til I tell her the latest updates on Sue. She will be laughing her head off!
Sometimes I really do not understand, some simple sms-es from an "ex"...such as asking you "How's life?", "How's things lately?"...is it such a big deal? Why would some girls make it look like its the end of the world..??? I wonder...
Ohhh....my god! Sue is talking about calling her boyfriend's "ex" to confront her....I better stop her before she do anything stupid....!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Because I had a bad day... ~
Today's just a bad day for me. For some unknown reason, I just couldn't fall asleep last night, until 3am and I had to wake up at 7am today.
Class was boring as usual, I couldn't pay much attention to our lecturer babbling in front of the class, althought I tried to understand him. Economics just sucks! I had the highest marks for econs essay for 1 week and the following week, boom, I couldn't even pass!
Economics = Uncertainty
I thought of giving up my econs and maybe concentrate on other subjects... Hmm, I don't know.. I'm impressed that Candy can look so attentive in class, or was she seriously paying attention? Haha...
Lunch time, the sun was SO strong, annoying, hot, I can just go on complaining... because everything just doesn't seem right today. Even my favourite guy in the class looks horrible today, hahahaha, this is just funny.
How was your day?
Signing off...
The Silly Mandy (=^_^=)
Class was boring as usual, I couldn't pay much attention to our lecturer babbling in front of the class, althought I tried to understand him. Economics just sucks! I had the highest marks for econs essay for 1 week and the following week, boom, I couldn't even pass!
Economics = Uncertainty
I thought of giving up my econs and maybe concentrate on other subjects... Hmm, I don't know.. I'm impressed that Candy can look so attentive in class, or was she seriously paying attention? Haha...
Lunch time, the sun was SO strong, annoying, hot, I can just go on complaining... because everything just doesn't seem right today. Even my favourite guy in the class looks horrible today, hahahaha, this is just funny.
How was your day?
Signing off...
The Silly Mandy (=^_^=)
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